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Birth of a baby gives birth to a ‘DADDY’.  First timer Daddys have an overwhelming experience, far more difficult than their counterpart Moms.  Don’t you wish babies should come with an instruction manual so that you would know just what to do and when to do it…? Not to worry, we have got it all covered from changing diapers to singing a lullaby.  To train to be a daddy, you must first learn to bond with your Lilliputian.  Birth bonding is the main requisite for a healthy relationship between daddy and baby. 

Touch the Heart

Only time will tell if your newborn is a genius or not.  However, your baby can tell the difference of touch.  Touch is the very first sense to develop in babies.    In fact, their sense organs begin to develop in the womb itself at an amazing speed.  Wonder why it’s easy to pacify a baby in the mother’s lap than anything else?    These tiny ones thrive on physical contacts.  That is why, they stop crying the moment they find a secured lap to snuggle.  Get the hang of holding your baby.  Skin to skin snuggling and cuddling soothes the baby and build a strong bond with the father.  If you want to touch your baby’s heart for many many years to come, you must touch the skin as often as possible by gently stroking him or holding him.  Guess what?  Even changing diapers and bottle-feeding would help to bond with your baby.

Music to ‘my’ ears

Sense of hearing in babies is developed in the final trimester in the womb itself.  By birth, the babies can begin to recognize familiar sounds, especially the ones they heard when they were inside the womb.  No wonder our ancestors advised us to read out spiritual verses loudly or sing melodious songs during the third trimester as it would soothe the baby inside.  For daddys to affectionately attach with their babies, they can hold them close to their heart and sing a lullaby softly.  It not only puts the baby to sleep but goes a long way in bonding between daddy and baby.

It’s play time

It may sound unbelievable but it’s true.  Even newborns respond positively to play, although the play pattern progresses as they grow older.   Toys don’t fascinate them just yet.  Your facial expression, funny sounds, gentle caress or peek-a-boo are enough to bring a smile on their face.  Getting up close and personal or just conversing with them is a great way of developing attachment with your baby.  Playing is crucial means of bonding between father and baby.  If you do want to buy toys, note that newborns like high contrast and black and white patterns, flash cards and mobiles hanging overhead their crib or gym. Their vision is not yet developed.  They can see up to 8 to 12 inches only.   

Fathering a newborn could be rather challenging especially, if it is your first time. However, the reward you get, will stir the soul.  These munchkins will steal your heart with their affectionate response in the form of cooing and smiling.